Things I’ve learnt and re-learnt:

Love is unselfish. At least it should be.
Relationships are hard work. More than most things in life.
The quiet girl in the office is actually quite funny.
Giving up smoking is more mental than anything else. Get your mind right Stev.
While I want all of my friends in my life, I don’t necessarily need them. The world is a cesspool of potential friends just waiting to happen. Ngiyazisholo nje.
The bigwigs at SAFA still don’t know what they’re up too.
The President of SAFA has a girls name. So unnecessary.
Bafana are capable of winning the world cup but wont – Ghana will.
Isidingo is not a soapie. It’s a drama.
I love being kwaMax eMlazi.
iLobola is not an option. It’s a core part of her culture.
iLobola is not a return on investment scheme.
I love my fiancé.
Don’t trust and believe everything you read/hear in the media.
President Zuma is not a bad man. He is a polygamist.
The midnight walker is not a bad man either. Slightly high strung and misguided, but not a bad man.
Thabo Mbeki for all his brilliance is actually rather dumb.
Syphilis is real. Robert Mugabe is living proof.
I dislike people who ride in on a horse of high moral standing when they are no better themselves.
I like David Bullard. He drinks.
Sometimes her silence speaks volumes. Don’t buy chocolates. Buy flowers.
Change is as good as a holiday. I need both.
Liverpool will not win the Premiership for at least another 12 years.
I still believe in Christ.
I need to go back to Church.


Renissa Moodley is an attractive woman and any man would be lucky to have her.

Its been emotional.
Stev